By Al Felder Children need to learn to guard their hearts. The heart is where thoughts, desires, motives, attitudes, choices, and character begin to form. A child’s outward behavior matters, but outward behavior grows from something deeper. What a child loves, listens to, thinks about, envies, fears, excuses, and desires will shape the direction of his life. Proverbs 4:23 says, “Keep your heart with all diligence, For out of it spring the issues of life.” That is a powerful l

By Al Felder Children need to learn how to choose good friends. Friendship is powerful. The people children spend time with can shape their speech, attitudes, habits, interests, values, and spiritual direction. A friend can encourage what is right, or make wrong seem normal. A friend can strengthen reverence for God, or slowly weaken it. A friend can help a child walk wisely, or lead him into foolishness. Parents must not treat friendships as spiritually neutral. Children may

By Al Felder Children need to learn what the church is. Many people grow up thinking of the church as a building, a denomination, a social organization, a family tradition, or a place people attend when convenient. Others speak of “choosing a church” as if the church belongs to man and can be shaped by personal preference. Parents must teach their children something better. The church belongs to Christ. Jesus said, “I will build My church” (Matthew 16:18). That statement is i